Older Girlfriend

Does it matter?

When we all sitting down to discuss this topic in the past, generally majority of us weren’t agree. As we’re grow older, this perception is totally a bullshit. Why wanted to limit it when ‘love is universal’?

Seriously, age doesn’t matter, as long both able to communicate well and understand each others. “Love is constant battle between mind and heart, true love exist when both have understanding”.

When you fall, your intuition has told you she is the One, someone that you’re looking for, your heart keep telling you, “She is, she is”.

So, looking at the topic, would you mind?

As you said that it doesn’t matter right? Okay, I followed a recent survey from the forum, the popular years is from 1 to 3 years. But how about more than 5 years? If the age gap is too far, it might be a generation gap or difference of thinking.

Does everybody realized that women have life expectancy higher than men by 3 years? Don’t you see, both can die together when it’s time due. Something that people less take it into consideration. If I am going to encounter this situation, I just go ahead and at least a good start, and I don’t think I have pressure from family.

What’s the problem after all??

Do we still think like men must older than women like what our grandparents do? It’s just the same right? If both of party truly love each other, why bothered about the age gap and continue what you’re looking for, don’t bother what other people talks and gossips.

Mentality must be overcome to accept the age gap. The misconception of this must be thrown out from the mind. Age doesn’t kill love or kill anyone. If the gap can bring happiness to the one that are getting it, would you object to it?

Love unites, not separates, and age gap/difference is just a totally bullshit. Why you can’t? Can’t fully accept this kind of relationship?

The real challenge is just started. She is already a successful business woman but I just graduated and work for a few months only. Many other areas also different as well, but honestly she is still looking like 18. Because she got a babyface.

All of my friends told me that she look like a gal under 20. Congratulate!! Remember never bother about how others looks at both of you. The most important is the both of you. As long as you feel that you are comfortable with each other.

Don’t doubt the love in between you guys. Always be humble towards each other. You can combine that with ‘love is blind’ and ‘beauty is only in the eye of the beholder’. When something isn’t right between us, we have to learn here (taken from email quote).

  • What’s not yours, It’s not. What’s yours, It will eventually come.
  • No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won’t make you cry.
  • Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
  • Don’t waste your time on a man/woman, who isn’t willing to waste their time on you.